Why Should You NOT Date An Avid Blogger

There are many reasons why you shouldn’t date a blogger but in order to keep myself alive in the blogging community after revealing their huge secret, I can only list down a few. Haha! I’m just kidding. Most bloggers are very friendly and funny. Great people to hang out with. Better than your own friends at times – if only you don’t have much friends, like me.

In case you don’t know, bloggers are very good writers or a PhD in Communication without certification. They can prove you right or wrong in an instant, purely with suggestive words via blog. Hey… am I doing the same? Damn. Conclusion, blogger are very influential and suggestive with their words, that’s why they are good in advertising and marketing without any theoretical lessons.

If you are dating a blogger now, Congratulation! You are famous now! You can Google for your name (or even your DOB) and results will be shown and people start comment about you. Awesome! On the other hand, you thought you can have a peaceful breakup if anything goes wrong in your relationship. The Truth is – NO. He/she will write about you on his/her blog for several posts which might last up to several days or even weeks. Think twice~

In return, if you can last a long-term relationship with a blogger, there are a few benefits:

1. Free invitation to movie screening, concerts and other luxury events
2. You don’t need to bring your own camera for shame
3. Everyone knows you before you know them
4. Nobody knows you are

The Love Game Theory

Love game may be a common term for everyone to describe how Relationship works and what Love means to certain individual. It is true. By the name of it, Love IS a Game whereby the players must be well aware that they ‘purchased’ this original game with their money, time and effort – and to play this game until the end while keeping it fresh from time to time to avoid the players themselves get bored with it.

There are people who succeed and failed in their relationship with their partners but there are those who don’t care about the relationship as long as it is there for them when they need it. Before we move on, here’s the breakdown of what I mentioned for your understanding;

• Love is a game
• Once you start playing, make sure you keep it fresh
• Never stop playing until the end unless you want to play another game

Keeping the relationship fresh is not an easy task. It is a responsibility of the two loving people. The rule is simple – challenge yourself to do something that you’ve never done before. You don’t have to keep your relationship fresh every single day. First, you must be able to evaluate the overall performance of your relationship.

• Good – No need to do anything just yet.
• Average – Need to think of something new (this is a common level).

Why He/She Graded You “F”

I never thought I would update my post with topic like this one. This is a theory I read, practiced and shared with my friends back in the days in order to know more of the girls. Also, I did mentioned of Cat & String in my previous post which gained a lot of attention from my readers, Thank you!

Cat & String is a theory that represent the boy and the girl in a relationship. If you prefer, it can be same gender relationship. It doesn’t matter as the theory only apply for two people in a relationship. And this does not mean the string will be used to tie up the cat in a provocative way which also known as Bondage. Please do NOT Google “bondage”.

This is my primary key chain!!! Cute right??!!?!

As everyone should know, a cat is always attracted to dangling string. The cat will always chase after it. And when the cat caught the string, the cat will get bored of it and leave it. In a relationship, if one person who has been the string for a long time and finally decided to rest and not dangling anymore, the other person will definitely walk away to find OTHER string. Do you understand me? The Rules are simple and you will have to follow these rules:

1. Identify who is the Cat and who is the String by yourself
2. The String must always be dangling so the Cat will never stop chasing
3. In order to let the String rests once a while, exchange role with each other
4. Never let anyone keep the specific role for too long as he/she will get bored
5. String must never keep the same momentum and style when dangling

Everyone’s Split Road In Life

The Split Road in everyone’s life. Have you heard of it? It is the most crucial decision making moment of who you want to be in the future. There will be only one chance, no turning back. This Split Road happens only once and it will be right after high school. It is not about your education or people whom you will meet. You will have to decide who you want to be, a person who has a goal and achieving it – or a person who can only be jealous of others while living at his minimum expectation.

I used to be a rebel back in my days in high school. I didn’t fight with anyone or scratch teachers’ car. But I didn’t like to study so I would skip school frequently with my friends and spend time at Cyber Cafe and we spent RM7 – RM10 a day there, usually 5 hours per visit. Soon after, my mom caught me and I felt upset. I knew it was wrong, then I continued my studies until college.

After study period, I made a decision. I want to make history – and in order to make that happens, I want to be successful in my career and be financially free. Today, I made my parents and family members proud! I’m now a Canadian banker for HSBC Bank Canada, currently based in Cyberjaya. If that day, I didn’t make that choice, I might have still been hanging around without thinking about my future.

I know a lot of people make decisions everyday. But this Split Road, is not any ordinary decision. It takes a lot of courage and effort to make it happen. I hope all my readers could understand my message here. Stop for a moment, and think of who you want to be in the future and how you want your parents, family members and friends to think of you. You want to make them proud and jealous of you. Make that happen with both of your hands. Hard work pays.

Here are the photos I took last year winter in Zhongshan, when I went to Macau and China all by myself, to meet my parents who were staying there for contract work (my mom stays there for vacation). Haha!!

It wasn't a myth that China people cannot spell simple English word!!

Like father like son huh? That's my parents there! I lost my belly now!

Should You Keep In Touch With Your Ex?

Should you keep in touch with your ex..? HELL NO !! It will be like having Justin Bieber in Transformers 3, that will definitely ruin the ratings and the merchandise sales of Hasbro products!!! This is not rocket science and I will explain to you why. If you dumped her, you need a new one – therefore no reason for you to call your ex again (make sense). If your ex dumped you, forget her entirely. This is a Cat & String Theory. Heard? PUAs should know this.

So, draw a cat and a string in your mind now. If the dangling string keeps attracting the cat’s attention, eventually the cat will chase after it like crazy. What happens when the cat caught the string? You are right, the cat will release the string as it got bored. Relationships are exactly Cat & String. It depends if you still want the string to be dangling. Question is – Are you the String, or the Cat?

Photo of myself after I got dressed up and ready to leave the house