First of all, I did NOT become a magician in an overnight success. Took me years of practice and learning, to get me standing where I am now. I may able to perform good magic/illusion.. but I had a fear (first year, 2002) of stage fright. It was scary, embarrassing, nervous, heart beats insanely fast!
If you’re a student, professional, manager or someone needs to stand out and speak to thousands of people.. you’re at the right place to eliminate your stage fright. You need to know what are the elements or matters that cause you to have stage fright. The most commons are;
- Camera shy
- Afraid of not able to perform well
- Lost of words
- Dissatisfied audiences (those who always boooo… at people)
- May be part of the series of unfortunate events of the day
For those who are camera shy, you should take photos of yourself or with your friends more often. Make sure you do more funny/weird faces along the way, that will helps you to maintain your smile without showing your awkward expression on stage when flashes came. Take a video too – I was a bit shy of posting my videos online but the well received response kept me doing it =D
Practice makes perfect. If you’ve practiced enough, you should be able to pull it through. Trust me! It’s not rocket science and you probably done something even more embarrassing during your elementary school. For bad audiences and chances of losing (eating) your own words, get a piece of paper and write down a few lines of short jokes or punchline. Use them to buy you sometime to think what you’ve missed out earlier =)
Try reverse psychology or NEG the bad audiences. NEG means negative. Example: “Don’t make fun of yourself before me” or “Great, you guys just entertained me, it’s awesome“. There won’t be PART 2 of unfortunate events.. if you think it will come true, it will! The Law Of Attraction! So STOP thinking about it! I hope these few short guidelines can be helpful. It helped me a lot back in the days..
Anyway, I’ve found the last piece of newspaper cut out. The handicapped home which located at Old Town PJ, visited by the Leos/Lions Clubs and I was there to help out. Also to put up a magic show for the folks;

I was holding the bent and twisted stainless steel fork in my left hand
I don’t remember why was I wearing the Christmas hat. It was January.. Weird!!! Enjoy your weekend. If I could help my friend, John to complete his next magic show act, I may demo them for you to next week. It’ll be awesome! =) Till then..
Signed Out,
AL




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said on 14-05-2010
hmm well me will still get damn nervous everytime before start presentation but once i stand up in front of everyone, all gone! haha!
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Haha! Good for you!!
That means you have total control of your stage fright. =P
Me too being nervous before the show, that’s because we have fear of missing out something.
But once we hit the ‘stage’, we know that we’ll be alright. All fears gone =D
Twitter: carolinemayling
said on 14-05-2010
lol! yea once we confidence ord, everything will going smoothly. haha! =D not bad ah u, got lot show offered to u ah now??
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Wheeeee.. LoL!!
Got. But I declined them. The shows are not my type.
Perform at shopping malls every week days for some sort of sales, for 2 weeks.
First of all, I will not have time to blog, secondly, nobody will care about my performances there but sales. =)
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said on 14-05-2010
Haha…so, I can conclude that your high blood pressure didn’t just come from your excessive dosage of coffee and workload, eh AL?! ;P Haha!
A nice piece of advice for everyone! Keep on sharing because sharing is caring~ ^^
Erm…may I share another tip on how to eliminate stage fright?
Be ‘muka tebal’ @ thick-skinned face~! Hahaha! XP
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Twitter: carolinemayling
said on 14-05-2010
which shopping malls?!?! hahaha!
but im sure they are also will be attracted by the performance too.
@Erica, Haha!! Exactly, I do have other issues that cause me high blood pressure. =D
Thanks! People been asking me about how to eliminate stage fright but I never post it before. =P
LoL!! I didn’t know what’s the term for ‘thick face’, and it’s not practical. Haha! But it works =D
@Caroline, Haha!! Don’t want to tell you which one. Haha!
I’m sure they won’t be attracted to the performances, but I, too got distracted by the sales!!!!!! xD
Hello Adrian! the one in newspaper is that you?
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Haha! That’s right! It’s me in the newspaper. LoL!
Taken last year only anyway. Thought I lost it =D
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said on 15-05-2010
Good tips!! I believe in the Law Of Attraction! No wonder I get to know about you and your magic tricks! I was thinking about magic! Haha!
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Hahaha!! Thank! The Law Of Attraction plays a big role in my life.
And I believe it! It’s the only religion I believe. Haha! =D
I’m sure MAGIC is the one that connects everyone together =) Hehe
Keep posting stuff like this i really like it
Thanks! I will keep it up. Hopefully it helps everyone in their own way to achieve what they want =D
Good jobs man.. I absolutely agree with practice makes perfect. It’s true dude!! Liked and will keep support you guy =)
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I think It’s one of greatest blog,,
keep blogging my friend,,
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@Jaylax, thanks!! LoL! Your support is my encouragement to keep blogging! xD Hehe
Magic and showmanship are both my life! Haha!
@Kelly, Thanks Kelly!
I enjoyed your news too. It’s awesome! =D
Will definitely keep blogging. =)
I bookmarked your post will read this latter . Regards, Mike
Sure, Mike! Haha!
By the way, you have interesting site there. =D
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